Monday, August 28, 2006

Men in Tights=Gay

I was reading some posts on the forum www.hosieryuk.com the other day,when I noticed someone asked the question "if I wear tights, am I gay?

I was suprised to think anyone could be capable of being so confused. As pointed out on the forum, what has one got to do with the other. Now Im thinking about wearing tights but I know for sure that I am heterosexual. Of course gay men may well wear tights and lets be honest gay men tend to be more open about their sexuality so perhaps we are more aware of gay men loving tight fitting clothing. But its also true that the majority of heterosexual men have some kind of desire for womens underwear, even if its just seeing their girlfriends pose in it, most probably wont be interested in wearing it - but some of us are! I am very certain of my sexuality, playing around with knickers does not mean I suddenly want to start playing around with cocks! Tits and pussy all the way for me lol!



Saturday, August 26, 2006

D'oh

So there is a flaw to my plan, its actually summer time here in the UK and so my wife has stopped wearing pantyhose at anytime. This is going to make it a bit trickier to sneek a pair of her worn hose on. Why is that? Plenty of women wear little summer skirts, tights and sandles - it looks very sexy as the pic to the left shows.

I think I need a plan b, I need to wait until im guaranteed a good amount of time to myself alone at home so that I can really relax and have the time to go through her underwear draw, Id like the chance to try on a few pairs, wear them round the house, perhaps sit and eat dinner in them and of course masturbate in them too.

Trouble is, she tends to never go out on her own, infact I havent been alone in the house on my own since we moved in together - im starting to miss my personal space.

Thursday, August 24, 2006

The perfect pantyhose

Wow, so I was browsing around the usual web shops when I came across this. I have to admit this body suit is one of the sexiest outfits ive ever seen, it's so hot! I wonder what it would be like to have a partner wearing that for you, or even to wear it myself. I added it to my wish list so here's hoping one day I can pluck the courage to buy one.

Body suits are by far my favourite fetish wear, whether in lycra, nylon of my fave - latex! Got to love her shoes too...
So Im also a big fan of rubber, as mentioned in a previous post, mostly thanks to Catwoman!

Turns out there are a few catwomen on blogger.com too!
http://rubberkitty.blogspot.com
Men in Tights

So what is it about tights, or pantyhose depending on where you are from. I remember noticing them from a young age and I remember wanting to try a pair on from as early as primary school. A male friend was made to wear a nice green pair for a school play, much to his disgust, but I recal wishing that it was me who had to wear them. Id have protested too, but then would have enjoyed the experience!

These days the only time it is acceptable for a man to wear tights is if e is starring in a movie, most likely about Robin Hood! Sportsman however seem to be more frequently climbing into a lycra running tight, but this isnt quite the same as a pair of lady's nylons!

So what is the attraction? Initially Id say its the kinky factor, the idea of doing something I shouldnt is always a thrill, wanting to wear a forbidden item, knowing that if any of my friends or colleagues found out Id never be able to show my face again.


Cheap thrills

I also simply love the look of a lady's legs wrapped tightly in pantyhose, particularly the toes, the crotch and the arse -well really the whole leg. I love the idea of a women being so tightly surrounded by the material as she goes about her daily business, sitting at her desk, running for the bus, whatever. And then I imagine her peeling it off at the end of the day, all soft and moist, heaped in a pile by the bed, just waiting to be pulled on by someone like me. Id love to pull it over my head and breath deeply, over my legs, over my crotch. I cant wait until my wife next wears her tights, she will pull them off and head to the shower leaving me ten or twenty minutes to enjoy them. Imagine the thrill of pulling them on and knowing she is only round the corner, she'd go crazy if she saw me, she is not very understanding about men who want to do this kind of thing, but aslong as I can hear the shower running I know Ill be fine.

Tuesday, August 22, 2006

So what turned a straight, conservative, Christian guy who was a virgin until married into a raging fetish craving individual?! I guess the repression is a key factor, having been living with my parents in an environment where I was not able to be sexual has probably resulted in much of my frustration!

Pulp Fiction

My first exposure to real fetish bondage play was most likely the film Pulp Fiction - now who can forget the Gimp?! The first time I saw that character I got such a rush of adrenaline and it was one of the lasting images of that film for me. I couldnt help but wonder what it must have been like for the actor to be dressed up in that way, how he felt to be on screen in an international film in such a seedy role. A search of the IMDB shows the actor to be Stephen Hibbert, an actor who has starred in a handful of roles, infact the Gimp seems to be his biggest role - what a thing to be famous for!


Batman

I believe another influence is the character catwoman from the Batman series. No, not the recent spin off film, sorry Halle Berry but you didnt cut it, Im talking about Batman Returns starring one latex clad lady Michelle Pfeiffer. I must admit to being fascinated by that latex suit, many a lonely night was spent with the DVD and pause button. From the moment I saw that outfit Ive dreamt of one day being with a woman dresed as that and of course I cant wait to wear one myself one day - not the easiest thing to get hold of though?!




What happened Next?

Without any real person to experiment and learn more about these screen icons I turned to the internet. I think I am proof that the internet can be a dangerous thing and the images that I subsequently sought out have totally influenced my current sexual preference. An early site I fell in love with was the Power of Women in Spandex. This is still a fave of mine, I really like that it is not explicit, it simply contains hundreds of women wearing tight clingy outfits, showing off their natural curves and shapely beauty.

Ive since been searching out other people with shared interest in fetish gear through various community resources and enjoying a number of personal websites. However the craving to try some of this stuff out myself is becoming overwhelming, Ive just got to try on some pantyhose, panties, maybe a whole lingerie set. Ive also got to get hold of some sex toys and maybe some more exciting fetish gear too.

First steps

So here we are, Ive suddenly found myself living with my new wife and access to her underwear, thankfully we are very similar sizes so I think Ill be able to enjoy her lingerie without ruining it! First stop has got to be a pair of tights...

Hi!

The internet is already full of pervs, and lets be honest, it doesnt need another! However I cant resist creating a little outlet for myself so here goes nothing!

No more!

Im actually a kinda normal 20 something yr old guy, recently married - just one week ago infact! We are both straight and conservative, we've just moved in together and we have both only just lost our virginity - she was more into the no sex before marriage than I!! Anyway, it is clear that I will always harbour some secret ideas that I could never share with her. So this little space is a chance for me to discuss my secret fantasies and to help me keep them under control! It seems unlikely that this will be my only chance to get these thing soff my chest - so thanks for reading!

Fetish

Essentially I cant help myself when it comes to a number of fetish activities, from women's underwear - including tights, stockings, panties, etc - to rubber, lycra, bondage, anything...! Perhaps its bourne out of my conservative upbringing, maybe I should have played the field a bit before commiting, but I guess its too late for that now!

It begins

The obvious starting point is with my good lady's underwear, now that we live together I have access to things Ive only oogled over in pictures. Currently she is not too adventurous, only having the normal line of pants bras, some pantyhose etc, but give me a few birthdays and christmas pressies and Ill be changing that! I must admit I have loved the look of pantyhose on women for many years, I love the way it encases the legs and the way it moves with them, defining the lines and outlining the soft curves. I love the idea of the tights encasing a lady's legs on a hot summers day as they sweat into them, how id love to put them on afterwards, to feel the hot moist material on my legs too.

To this end, I have resolved to try this out the next time I can, I will be waiting for the opportunity, the time when my missus discards her worn tights and gives me the chance to slip into them.