Sometime ago I setup a profile on the infamous web site www.gaydar.co.uk. Now, I am not actually gay but I quickly realised that most women willing to play around on webcams will only do so for a fee. I'm afraid I just have no interest in paying out to fool around in this way and so an alternative was needed! Gaydar is a great alternative because its chat room happens to be stuffed full of pervy guys happy to jump on a webcam at the drop of a hat!
Sadly, I have found that most of these guys fall into 2 categories:
- Total fantasists who have no real idea of what they are doing
- Nicey nice guys too keen not to be in the former group
So when looking for guys to play some webcam domination or submission games I have the same problems. Either the guy starts asking for stupid impossible crazy requests such as flash my knob out of the window and ask the first man I see to come and fuck me. Or they are so nice that they ask me what I want to do and have no capability of leading the game!!
I'm not going to just jump on cam and show people what I want to show. That just doesn't interest me, it doesn't get me excited. And I have no desire to do anything dangerous, illegal, or upsetting to anyone. Why isn't there someone in the middle?
My ideal webcamer would:
- Be older than me
- More experienced (not hard!)
- Not afraid to make requests of me even if I seem shy and reluctant
- Have some specific fetish interests
- A desire to watch someone indulge those interests
- Know how to be safe and sane, know when the game ends
So next time you come across a quiet webcam user on gaydar and they claim to be into domination games then please don't be shy. If it would turn you on massively to watch them rub themselves against a balloon, pretend to be a robot, pull pantyhose over their head, or any other specialist fetish activity - then please just ask them. No, TELL them to perform for you and don't take no for an answer! If it's me on the end of the cam, you might just get exactly what you want!
